Being delighted
Well we’re officially into January and well into 2008, and I’ve had some time to really be contemplative about where I’m at right now, where I was in 2007, and how life is going to change in the coming year. I mean, whoa–we’re adding a whole new member to our family this year!
It’s true that we had quite a few changes in 2007–in fact, I’d say it was “the year of change” when it comes to categorizing all the years of our married life together so far. I turned 30, we moved to a new house, I got pregnant, we both started new jobs, Sophia started daycare, Grammy moved away (as did my brother and his family), and we made the hard decision to leave our church and the kids we loved there, among the many other things that happened last year.
Overall, it was quite a ride, to say the least. But even with all of that, looking back I’d say that it was a pretty amazing year, even with all the highs and lows. And I think, looking forward, that instead of making resolutions about the things I’d change about my life, I want to focus on what about my life delights me.
I got the idea from an inspiring blogger, Christine Kane, who was also my inspiration last year to forgo the ritual of resolution-making in lieu of simply choosing a word to live by. Being me, I couldn’t choose just one word, of course. So last year I focused on happiness by way of joy and gratitude (and then threw in creativity for good measure). And I think that overall I tried to live joyfully and gratefully last year, although I know I failed at times (hmm, my entire first trimester of this pregnancy would most definitely classify as a less than joyful time for me).
There are so many big decisions and events on the near horizon for me personally and for us as a family, that I can’t help but focus on the here and now to not get overcome by the hugeness of it all. Moving forward, I am choosing to simply be delighted with the world around me, and I am also focusing on the word expansion this year (expanding our family and, hopefully, the expansion of my photography into something more substantial).
But for now, I’ll share with you my list of 100 things that delight me today (in no particular order). Hopefully this list will also inspire delight in you for the little things in your life that make you smile.
- a warm toddler belly first thing in the morning
- photoshop
- my Nikon
- yogurt
- being completely engrossed in a great book
- flickr
- holding hands
- NPR
- the sound of rain on the roof
- warm dog breath
- tea parties
- handmade crafty goodness (etsy.com!)
- blogging
- pedicures
- digital photography
- the way a baby’s little hand curls around your finger
- naptime
- my husband’s cooking
- guitar music
- laughing so hard your belly aches the next day
- hiking
- fireplaces
- dishwashers
- my duvet cover and all my pillows
- inspiration
- instant messaging my husband
- celeb gossip magazines at the hair salon
- picture frames
- full bookshelves
- libraries
- graphic design
- remembering my vitamins
- caramel
- my daughter’s infectious giggle
- movies with great soundtracks
- craftsman furniture
- a big glass of red wine
- eating good food with good friends
- organic face wash
- the crisp smell of fall
- mentoring high school and college aged kids
- social networking sites
- explodingdog.com
- the passionate and innocent prayers of a 2-year-old
- traveling somewhere new
- the sound of the train whistle as I’m drifting off to sleep
- the view of the sunrise from my backyard
- Big Bear
- listening to my husband play the piano
- my dog’s fuzzy belly
- warm bread
- a good latte
- baking cookies
- wonderful grandparents for my daughter
- date night with my husband
- my daughter’s genuine excitement to see me, no matter how long it’s been
- the smell of freshly cut grass
- the smell of clean laundry from the dryer
- the smell just before it rains
- the smell of the seasons changing
- pea coats
- pod casts
- pancakes
- beaches
- great girlfriends
- creativity
- going barefoot
- really good art – especially good student artwork
- Jon Stewart
- robin’s egg blue
- Blueprint Magazine
- drivers who give the courtesy wave
- videos on demand from Charter cable
- rainy days when you have nowhere to go
- toddler toes
- baby sign language
- funky jewelry
- playing dress up
- white Christmas lights
- Halloween costumes
- unique water pitchers
- a job that gives me lots of paid time off
- letter press note cards
- gift cards
- a new house
- a long hot bath
- jeans
- chocolate
- the internet
- flip flops
- babies learning to walk
- camping
- berries
- reconnecting with old friends
- sleeping in
- forgotten money
- organizing
- road trips
- carousels
- random outbursts of song in our daily lives
What about you? What delights you? Feel free to add onto my list in the comments or create your own list and leave me a link!



I may steal this, but really, when will I have time? It may have to be a two parter.
Do you know what you’re having yet? When are you due?